This forward-ports the change from 1.23.1

We upgrade our version of pwasm-utils -- the old one severely
undercounted stack usage in some cases. As this is a protocol change, we
keep the old implementation around

Test Plan
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* added test for stack overflow behavior for the bad case
* added test for protocol upgrade related to stack overflow
* fuzzed new pwasm utils implementation locally, confirmed that it only
  differs for calls which stack overflow