chore: bump dependencies

[nirinchev]

Proposed changes

Bumps all dependencies to latest except for @mongodb-js/devtools-connect and @mongosh/service-provider-node-driver - those come with a major version upgrade for the oidc plugin, which results in an esm issue that I didn't want to investigate right now.

Checklist

• I have signed the MongoDB CLA

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Pull Request Overview

Bumps most devDependencies and dependencies to their latest versions while excluding two packages that introduce an ESM issue.

• Updated multiple devDependencies to newer releases.
• Bumped various runtime dependencies to newer releases.
• Left @mongodb-js/devtools-connect and @mongosh/service-provider-node-driver at their previous versions due to an ESM issue.

Comments suppressed due to low confidence (3)

package.json:78

• The version '^3.25.76' for 'zod' appears unusually high; please verify this is the intended version or correct any typo.

    "zod": "^3.25.76"

package.json:56

• Ensure that ts-jest v29 supports Jest v30, or upgrade to a compatible ts-jest version (e.g., v30.x) to avoid potential mismatches.

    "ts-jest": "^29.4.0",

package.json:35

• Remember to update and commit the corresponding lockfile (package-lock.json or yarn.lock) to ensure these dependency changes are properly applied.

  "devDependencies": {