CDRIVER-6075 fix and update EVG task coverage on MacOS distros

[eramongodb]

Resolves CDRIVER-6075.

Per DevProd's EVG Distro Guidelines for MacOS:

MacOS 10.14 and 11 are long EOL'd operating systems. While Apple doesn't publish exact information on what they support, the rule of thumb is they will support the "current" release and the two previous releases. Any release prior no longer receives security updates. If something is not working for you on an older, EOL'd operating system, we will likely not be able to modify it anymore and you should try to migrate your project to a newer, supported OS.

CDRIVER-6075 (this PR) announces deprecation targeting the 2.2.0 release in advance of CDRIVER-6076 targeting the 2.3.0 release (per Client Libraries policy). However, this PR applies EVG configuration updates in advance to address ongoing MacOS 11 task failures caused by inconsistent and sometimes ancient uv version being provided by the system which DET scripts do not expect (this seems to be a regression sometime after August 1...?).

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C standard compatibility coverage is also extended to MacOS 14 arm64, specifically for better Apple Clang libc++ coverage. The resource-limited MacOS 14 x86_64 tasks are updated+minimized to test against "minimum" (available) and "latest" server versions only. The MacOS tasks are updated to use "replica" topology by default for better test suite coverage, as "server" (single) is likely not providing as much value (+ there is plenty of equivalent single topology coverage on other distros).

Try to use these distros more sparingly.

This PR attempted to extend coverage to sharded topologies, but encountered too many unexpected task failures, prompting CDRIVER-6078. This PR also defers investigating /scram/cache_invalidation task failures by adding a "skip if macos" condition, prompting CDRIVER-6079.